The 16 Days of Activism against Gender-Based Violence campaign is a time to reflect on the suffering of women and girls worldwide. Islamic Relief brings you the story of Noor*, which represents the experiences of countless women trapped in cycles of abuse, silence and fear.

At just 13, Noor was married off, a decision driven by her family’s financial struggles. While her early marriage was marked by love for her husband and children, after Noor’s husband died, she was subjected to violence and mistreatment by her in-laws. Her husband’s family eventually forced Noor out of their home and separated her from her 2 sons.

The abuse didn’t end there. Living with her parents offered no escape for Noor, as her in-laws threatened to take her infant daughter, the only child that was still with Noor.

Noor’s days were filled with fear, isolation and uncertainty. With no formal education, few job prospects and a lack of knowledge of her legal rights, she felt utterly trapped.

Finding strength in solidarity

Noor became curious about Islamic Relief’s Empower project after hearing about it from a neighbour. Through community activities and support groups organised by the project, Noor was able to connect with other women whose experiences mirrored her own.

For the first time, Noor learned about laws protecting women from domestic violence. Noor informed her in-laws that she would take legal action if they continued to harass her or tried to take her daughter away. Her confidence grew with every session she attended, empowering her to fight for herself and her children.

One of the most significant moments in Noor’s journey came when she realised that she wasn’t alone. With the support of Shugufta, a dedicated member of the Empower community group, Noor began therapy, which helped her regain her sense of self-worth.

Noor could now see a future where she wasn’t only a survivor, but also a protector of her children and an advocate for other women in similar situations.

Challenges persist, but so does hope

While Noor has come a long way, her journey is far from over. She now dreams of reclaiming custody of her sons and ensuring her children get the education she never had. Despite ongoing financial struggles, Noor is determined to provide a better life for them.

Noor’s resilience and courage, fuelled by support and education, highlight the importance of grassroots efforts like the Empower project. Change may come slowly, but for women like Noor, it starts with knowledge and the belief that they deserve better.

Please donate today to help women like Noor break free from cycles of abuse and take control of their futures. Every contribution brings us one step closer to a world where no woman must suffer in silence.

*Name has been changed to protect confidentiality